Turn Ons: Nature ('specially weather, snow, sunsets, rainbows, fall colours, &c.), travel, thinking, reading, music, adventures of all sorts, expanding horizons, reorientation, wandering & wondering, costumed events, socializing (large groups, small groups, and 1-on-1), sharing all this and other's fave stuff, mutuality, love, connection, intimacy. Turn Off's: hypocrisy, flakiness, excessive/extreme/annoying/undeserved big-headedness, malice, viciousness, bad intent, bad breath. Current Activities Include: widening/culling circles of friends, trying to reawaken, making myself at home in the PacNW.